pessimist? optimist?

 "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."               Winston Churchill

Hello Swarm Single Moms

Are you an optimist or a pessimist??

How you see yourself and how you see the world, greatly affects your children and their views of the world.

If you spent your pregnancy abstaining from all that may be harmful to your babies, then spent the ensuing years teaching them to wear a safety belt and a bike helmet, you made sure their shots were up to date, then kept them up to date..if you took all sorts of protective measures to ensure they would survive ... can you say that you took equivalent measures to ensure they would survive happily and thrive. You know... you can help to nurture how your kids view the world and whether they see their world as a glass half empty or half full.

Moms!!! Were you aware that you can help greatly improve the quality of your kids lives by teaching them to view the world as a happy and welcoming place.  Did you know that by teaching them how to adapt to change (and to view it as an adventure), how to tackle and solve problems (like they are building puzzles) and how to bounce back from adversity and challenges (i.e. you get knocked down, but you are not out of the game)... that you are increasing their likelihood for happiness.  When you teach them self-reliance and how to solve their problems (yes, including making mistakes) you are helping to create a mindset that helps them view the world as manageable.  

Let's take the time -  as we proceed through this life, to help create the mindset that this life is pretty dang good and that we have the power to make it better.  Let's protect our children's minds and positive personalities by doing all that we can to not create pessimists, nay sayers and all out negative people.  This life is good ... even when we have seemingly insurmountable struggles and challenges!  So let's do what we can to make negative, pessimistic and other nastiness ... disburse and disappear now!!!